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With a few exceptions, like the beautiful hawaiian islands , summer is a pretty torturous time across the country. The Midwest and East coast suffer from high temperatures made worse from equally high humidity. Here on the West coast we, fortunately, do not have much humidity; however we suffer from extremely high temperatures. I live here in Phoenix where we do not just have 100 degrees hot, but frequently close to 120 degrees hot. Whatever side of the country you live on, as much of your summer as possible is spent indoors away from the sun. Meaning you do not want any more of the sun coming into your home than necessary.
To keep the heat from the sun out and your air conditioning bill down, begin by looking at your window coverings . There are several designs that look nice but do not do much to keep the heat; which is particularly important if you don’t have dual pane windows. As far as window designs go, shades are your best bet. They keep the highest levels of UV rays out, which will help keep your electric bill down, and they come in a variety of styles and designs to fit any room decor. Shades are also good if you want to keep the light out because they are available in many different materials, both light and thick. There are many tips and ideas on blind company websites .
Summer is unbearable enough without having to suffer inside your home. Before this summer hits, do yourself and your wallet a favor and invest in some summer appropriate window coverings. Cut down on your air conditioning bill and at the same time make the summer more enjoyable for everyone . With so many styles out there, there is just no reason not to.

My boyfriend Carl and I were visiting my aunt and grandma in Jefferson County Missouri last summer. They live in a little rural area and my family all thought it would be the perfect place for a family reunion. I hadn’t been back to visit my grandmother in years and was eager to see her so I decided to help my mom make the trip happen and I applied for the time off of work and tried to help plan it. As it turns out only a couple of cousins were able to go and the whole reunion agenda kind of fell apart. And because of the small response I decided to ask my boyfriend to go with us because it didn’t seem like a lot of reunion activities were going to happen and I thought maybe we could take my cousin and go into St. Louis to see a show or something and spend the night in one the hotels to kind of night burden my grandma and aunt so much.

So, it turns out the four day visit was actually really fun and not only did Carl get to meet everyone, but my cousins and I were able to have a great time and it was so good to see my grandma. One afternoon my cousin Shirley asked my grandma about a ghost town that was supposed to be in the area. My grandma said she must be talking about Hematite, though it really wasn’t much of a ghost town, according to grandma. We decided to make a little road trip out of it though and followed the directions three miles off of highway A. It was actually more fun to explore some of the area’s history than to investigate a stereotypical ghost town setting. Hematite, named after the iron ore that was mined there, was established about 1867 after the railroad had been there for about ten years. There are few old vacant homes and a graveyard from the time. We heard a story about an old lady outside of town that used herd goats and sell their milk. This was a remedy at the time and she used to care for people using the goat milk. Apparently she died of a heart attack and her ghost can still be fond wandering around trying to help people. We looked for her on our way out though we never saw anything.

Now a days you can find restaurants all over the world that accommodate vegetarians. Many of them have come up with some well balanced dishes that combine ingredients to helps the nutrients to absorb better in ones body. There is some learning to do when one decides to become a vegetarian to make sure that the nutrients is actually getting to the body properly. There are many reasons that people are vegetarian eaters. Some just don’t want to see animals killed and others have religious obligations.

Hinduism is one of the religions that hold vegetarianism as and ideal. The reasons for this includes the nonviolence to animals, the offering of only pure food to a deity which will then bring back the blessing within and then there is the belief that anything non vegetarian is bad for the mind and the spirit. They believe it hinders spiritual growth and development. Hindu’s usually still eat eggs and dairy products so they are considered lacto-vegetarians. There eating habits do vary depending on the region they come from.

Judaism has interesting rituals around meat. They do favor vegetarianism because of the concern for animals but also they think that the act of killing the animal develops negative character traits in people. They were more concerned with the effects on the person character. It is not a requirement or is it prohibited to eat meat when one is practicing Judaism but the topic is talked about and made on personal decision. It seems that with most religions there is a choice of whether or not to be vegetarian. There is, however, some that forbid eating certain kinds of meat like beef or pork. Judaism asks that one prepares the meats a special way which would be kosher. So why are you a vegetarian?

If you have made it to the heart of America town of Bloomington Indiana and you are looking for a great place to stay you will find many fantastic accommodations here at www.bloomingtonhotel.net There is a list of great places to stay that will fit all styles and budgets. While you are in the city you will need to find something to pull you away from room service and the HBO Channel. You will find there are some quaint things to do that will give you a much needed break from your travel or work routine.

With all the universities in town there is undoubtedly going to be some high creativity and performance. The IU School of Music is turning out some amazing musicians that you will find performing. You may catch them in a more structured format like with the Bloomington Pops Orchestra or blowing of some steam of their own in the local bars and pubs in their original bands. The fine arts department has some great young artists motivated to hang their masterpieces in the many galleries located through out the city. There is a great one stop place called By Hand Gallery which has all sorts of treasures. They have furniture art pieces, jewelry, blown glass, hand woven articles as well as prints featuring mostly local and regional creators. It has been around for 25 years.

If you are a sports fan you may enjoy taking in a local high school or college game. There are also ways to get into the game at the Twin Lakes Recreation Center. They offer plenty of ways to get some exercise with there large weight training room and fitness area. They also have room for a lot of group sports with five basket ball courts, indoor soccer field and volleyball. So give them a call maybe they need another person to fill a team.

It can be a little more difficult to catch your breath in New York City than in other places, and it’s not necessarily because of the air.  For me, it’s difficult to find a place that is not buzzing with excitement, some little nook where adventure or glamour or simply the mad flow of life doesn’t enter.  These quiet places are never very quiet for very long.  The other option, of course, is to purchase one, or to buy time in one where the owners have already purchased some quiet.  There are some excellent hotels where these things are possible, and sometimes even likely.

Churches and synagogues are also great places to go to get a moment to yourself, but there aren’t a lot of buildings open at the hours you might need a little time to reflect.  Yoga studios in New York are a relatively inexpensive way to grab an hour of calm, and it’s not a bad way to get back to that place where things seem to be in equilibrium.  Doing yoga helps to teach you that you’re already in equilibrium, and so if everything else that’s here.  It’s one of my favorite ways to stop the noise in my head, so I can listen to the beat of my own heart.

There are also masseuses, and other ways of buying your way into silence, but yoga and meditation taught me my very favorite place.  It sounds corny, perhaps, but it’s called the Here and Now.  When I can get calm, there are places inside the mind and body that open up.  I’ve learned that I can always get calm, if there is the possibility of taking a single slow breath.  This is free, and it reminds me that I am also free.  I can walk through the crowded streets in the busiest part of the day, and taking the breath can make my concentration rise to where I can send out my focus, and it returns to me with a very precise sense of being, that feeling of being the breath that was caught.

America got a great expansion in 1803 when they bought a large territory from the French. The Louisiana Purchase was made and the French Emperor, Napoleon Bonaparte, who made the deal with a little bit of a plan to take down England. He saw the the Unites States forming into a great power that would humble the English crusade. It was a big moment for the president, Thomas Jefferson. Jefferson had some constitutes question his purchase claiming it may be unconstitutional, however, he did not see the conflict. He did not see any provisions for gaining new territory and he felt this purchase would help to protect the country from possible trade blocks in the port of New Orleans. France and Spain both had to much power in the port and he felt it best to end that situation.

There are many elegant hotels throughout Louisiana to come and explore the early history of America. There are many museums spread across the state that can help fill in any gaps of knowledge you may have about the history of the area. If you are the true buff than it is always so exciting to see the actual places and feel the artifacts that notable people stayed and carried. In the world we live in today, it is hard to imagine the life that was lived with the lack of technology or even just plain modern conveniences.

Anyway, the Louisiana Purchase started as plan to protect interests in a port of of city but ended up expanding into many new states. Today the area of the original purchase makes up parts of New Mexico, South Dakota, North Dakota and Minnesota. The whole states of Nebraska, Kansas, Oklahoma, Iowa, Missouri and Arkansas were created out of the purchased land and all have been major contributors to the country we know of today.

When I was growing up there was only one SeaWorld that I know of and that was in San Diego. Now you can find a room at one of the luxurious San Antonio hotels on this site drop your bags, put on some shorts and head for the SeaWorld in this Texas town. This SeaWorld was opened here in May of 1988 and is a major attraction to the area. Millions of people visit this park each year and the mammals are so happy to show of there tricks to a willing crowd.

The idea of SeaWorld came from the brain storming of four UCLA graduates, Milton C Shedd, Ken Norris, David Demott and George Millay. They scrapped some plans of doing an underwater restaurant and marine life show when it was clear they were not going to be able to pull it off. They decided instead to open a theme park that feature the same sort of idea, marine animals to the people. The decided to open some more parks across the country so the set there eye on Ohio. That ended up being a difficult place to maintain and had a short operation time, during the summers only but it still succeeded because of its location to the locals there. They then rode the coat tails of Disney in Orlando Florida. The Walt Disney World Resort in Orlando opened and they decided to open in the same area which pushed Orlando into the theme park mecca of the world.

The company was bought by Harcourt Brace Jovanovich Inc. in 1976 and many years later they opened in the heart of Texas. Then with hard times came another selling of the company to Anheuser-Busch who has put a lot of money into the parks helping them to thrive as well as they have. So while you are in San Antonio take a day and go enjoy the local SeaWorld.

Steve had always considered vacation destinations major cities that spanned the globe. Growing up his parents always loved to travel and instilled this passion in their children. And while he did tour country sides, such as when he spent a full three weeks in Tuscany Italy, he generally oriented his destination to a major city. Even while visiting Tuscany he was based in Florence and spent the majority of his time there. It was his wife’s insistence that they spend a week in a country villa, though he had a fabulous time and never objected.

However, last spring when his wife Rhonda suggested that they spend their summer vacation in Colorado his response was that he goes to Denver all the time for business and while it’s a great city he doesn’t feel like vacationing there. Rhonda laughed a little knowing her husband’s tendencies and then explained that she wanted to explore some of the great mountains and country area. It took Steve a while to register exactly what she meant and was initially less than enthusiastic about the idea. However, after some consideration, he finally agreed to go. Not because he thought it was a great idea, but because he recognized that he almost always got to choose their destination.

Rhoda was overjoyed and immediately started suggesting specific destinations. She learned that she would have final say and decided on an area in the Rocky Mountain National Park. It couldn’t have been a better choice. Steve loved the views and open air. He thought it was one of the most beautiful places he had ever been and couldn’t have felt more at peace yet inspired that summer. Rhoda knew she had made a great decision when she stepped out of their cottage style accommodations and found Steve out front practicing his Tai Chi moves. She hadn’t seen him do that in years and left him to his own while she grilled breakfast out in the open.

Phoenix is an ever expanding city, with construction projects underway each day of the year, from some of the finest and best Phoenix hotels, to the building of sports arenas and new housing developments.  Before a new project is underway however, the archaeologists are called into to excavate and survey the land on which these new buildings are being constructed.  The reason for this is the vast array of archaeological sites that have been found in the city and the surrounding areas.

This region of the Southwest is rich with the history of Native American cultures, and whether it is scholastic study in the Anthropology Department of Arizona State University, or a whether it is an interest of hobby, many people travel to this city to discover the wealth of information that lies buried in the dry Arizona desert.  There are digs and research projects that have been underway for many years, and these are great locations to visit as tours are offered, however many of the digs have raised more mysteries than solved answers.

One such site and museum, is located in downtown Phoenix close to the airport, Pueblo Grande.  This is just one of the more than twenty Hohokam sites throughout the Valley of the Sun.  It dates back to the twelfth and thirteenth centuries and offers a bit of insight into one of the earliest known cultures to have settled along the Gila River.  Casa Grande is a site located just to the Southeast of Phoenix near the town of Coolidge.  Mystery surrounds this site, as many scientists have speculated that not only was it a settlement, but that in the carefully constructed, multi-level pueblo construction, it may have also been an observatory, an early base for the study of Astronomy.

This area was flooded in 1911, by the construction of the Roosevelt Dam, and many of the remains were destroyed, leaving much of this site and the people who inhabited it, an enigma.  This is the reason for the research done now by anthropologists and archaeologists throughout the city, to protect these remains, the artifacts, and the history before new construction begins.  Touring the archaeological sites and the museums of the Southwest desert city of Phoenix opens one’s eyes to those who have been here before, and to those living in the city today.  Those whose ancestors lived here more than 500 years.

I tried to follow the footsteps of Andy Kaufman in NYC, not with the attempt to become him, but to try to find out what was on his mind.  It has been an obsession that’s lasted longer than I would ever care to admit, but that seems to be part of the legacy of trying to figure out the man on the moon.  In a way, it’s like following after any of the great mad artists, like Artaud or Giacometti, you get into their worlds very easily, but it’s also very difficult to find your way back out.  There’s a certain saturation point where it’s difficult to tell if you’re getting anything out of the search besides getting more disturbed.

He didn’t really live long enough for us to know if he was truly disturbed, or singularly obsessed, but it was a music that only he heard.  When we could hear it, too, it was pure joy, but otherwise we were lost and felt dumb for not getting the joke.  In that spirit, I checked into a five star hotel in New York by pretending to be someone else, I won’t say who, just in case it’s still on the register somewhere, and spent the weekend in this other name, as if it were an alter ego.  The only thing I could do that was familiar, I told myself, was to read part of the Kaufman biography I’d already been through a dozen times.

I don’t really know what the intention was, but I know that somewhere along the line I went from nervous to absolutely giddy.  It was extremely gratifying to have people believe me in coffee shops and park benches, and I began to see some of the appeal of putting people on.  That strange figure who I once watched at my parents’ house, on Van Dyke and Company, started to make sense.  This was only a glimpse, however, because the weekend was over, and I was out of money.  It was something I would never repeat, because it opened up something strange, a kind of box of phantoms there that dance at the edges of the place where life starts to blur into art.

While you are getting out from one of the elegant hotels around Greensboro North Carolina you may find yourself on Dolley Madison Road. Would you think of the pre made Dolly Madison baked goods or the wife of the James Madison, forth President of the United States. She was quite the lady and she was born in Greensboro in May of 1768. She would also act as the First Lady for Thomas Jefferson since he was a widower. She would participate in ceremonial functions when she was needed.

She was born to Mary Coles a Quaker and John Payne who became a Quaker three years into marriage. So Dolley was raised with the Quaker faith and that set the tone of her life. Dolley was one of eight children in the Payne family, four boys and four girls. For a brief time that family lived in Greensboro and that is, of course, when she was born. They came from Virginia and later returned to Virginia until 1765 when John Payne let his slaves go free and moved to Philadelphia and went into business as a starch merchant.

In 1790, Dolley married John Todd a Quaker lawyer. He died of yellow fever in Philadelphia in 1793 along with her youngest son William Temple. Then came along James Madison who was seventeen years older than the twenty five year old Dolley. He had his friend Aaron Burr introduce them and they hit it off and were married in September of 1794. Dolley became an Episcopalian following James’s faith. James was in the House of Representatives for eight years and then retired. They moved to the Madison family estate in Virginia to be planters and live quietly. Thomas Jefferson had other plans as he asked James to be his Secretary of State. He accepted the position and they were diverted to Washington D.C.. She went on to be a very important person in the presidencies of Thomas Jefferson and her husband James Madison.

If I spend a some nights at a some quaint hotels around Hampton and search out the different areas of the Virginia coast would I get a better idea of were Ella Fitzgerald was coming from? It is always my belief that an artist is going to put all there experiences of childhood and adulthood into there art or performance. The jazz vocalist, Ella Fitzgerald, did have a very interesting life. Her voice was so rich and soulful that she melted the hearts of the world with her voice. He had three octaves of pure tone blended with perfect diction and delicious phrasing. Her scat singing was a signature of her style it is no wonder she received 13 Grammy Awards and other awards for her talent.

Originally, Ella wanted to be a dancer but she was also a great lover of music. Her mother would play jazz records of Bing Crosby, Louis Armstrong and The Boswell Sisters. She fell in love with Connee Boswell and decided she wanted to sing just like her. Her young life would take a big turn for the worse when her mother died when she was about 15 years old. She ended up getting in trouble. It started with skipping school, to working with the Mafia. Finally she was picked up by the police, taken to a reform school of which she escaped and then was placed in a colored Orphan Asylum in the Bronx.

At age 17 she made her big singing debut at the Apollo Theater in Harlem. It became a weekly performance were she pulled in a good audience so was asked to take part in the Amateur Night that the theatre hosted. Funny, she was going to go on dancing but she got intimidated by another act and decided to go on singing in the same jazz style as Connee Boswell. She was a hit and won the first prize of twenty five dollars. Her life and career went on to be astounding. She played with many famous musicians and met presidents had ups and downs. I am sure that all of her interesting life was in every note she sang.

The wonderful park in Brooklyn, Prospect Park, has been through many times of birth, decay, and rebirth. There are many individual facilities in the park and each one is rich with the history not only of the park, but of this particular New York borough as well. In recent years, the park has been going through several projects of rejuvenation and renovation, all under the care of the Prospect Park Alliance. Thus creating once again, a transformation which makes this location in Brooklyn one of the most popular destinations for tourists and residents alike.

The bandshell for instance, was originally designed and built by Aymar Embury and was recently refurbished in 1983, under the direction of the Prospect Park Alliance. Today, many people enjoy a night out in one of the best restaurants Manhattan and Brooklyn streets are lined with, and then a wonderful outdoor concert at the bandshell.  For the children, and for carousel enthusiasts of all ages, the carousel of Prospect Park is another one of the many individual aspects of the park, that has a rich history all its own.

There have been many carousels in the park since 1874.  Some of the early carousels burned down, and the one that still turns in the park today, was moved from its original location on Coney Island.  This one was closed down in 1983 due to the increasing deterioration over time, but again, the Alliance stepped in, and in by the fall of 1990, the carousel became the first project completed during the massive project involving all of the aspects of the park.  More than eight hundred thousand dollars were raised to fix the parts that had broken, and restorative artists removed about twenty layers of paint, to reveal the original paint on the carvings of Charles Carmel.  Any time spent in New York is not complete without a trip to Brooklyn, and any day in Brooklyn, is so too, not complete without a walk through Prospect Park.

Indianapolis is one of those rare places in the world where salsa and real estate might come together in new and interesting, and certainly unexpected, ways.  It’s a city that’s famous for representing a version of the heartland of the U.S. that people generally accept.  The city is neither too big nor too small, with some gorgeous landscapes.  It’s also enormously cosmopolitan, and there are many different cultures and traditions that exist here.  The Latino population has increased tremendously in the past decade, and is still growing.

People who come to visit the city are finding it a delightful place with an enormous amount of cultural offerings.  Live theatre, dance, and music, are always to be found, and there are some stunning performers that call Indianapolis their home.  Visitors can check out www.indianapolisluxuryhotels.com to find a sumptuous place to stay that will offer splendid accommodation and wonderful hospitality.  There are many wonderful things about the midwest, and one of the most exciting has always been its adaptability, and its ability to change with the population.  So it should be no surprise to find fantastic salsa music here, and Orquestra Bravo! is one of the most visible groups in town.

They play a kind of salsa whose roots are partially in the heart of San Juan, Puerto Rico, where the rich brass accompanying the accomplished percussion makes a sound that is meant for dance halls.  It is enormously intoxicating music, and the vocal stylings and personal charm of Stacie Sandoval make it a very hot way to spend an evening, even in the heart of winter.  This is salsa at its most lush and gorgeous, and it’s changing the local soundscape in remarkable ways.  They do play salsa, of course, but also are accomplished in a number of other Latin styles, and make an evening remarkable.

New York was our last stop on a whirl-wind 3-month tour of America. We had purchased our round-trip tickets from Bangkok to New York City, which means we needed to be back in New York to catch our return flight to Thailand. We managed to spend a full week in the city.

We were staying in one of the top New York City hotels, which is what we saved up all our travel money for, we wanted to experience the best New York has to offer, and we weren’t disappointed. It rained the whole day we arrived, so needless to say we got soaked in Central Park. We ducked inside a museum and had a great time trying not to drip or way through the Meso-American pottery and the Impressionism period. We got the nastiest looks from people, but, luckily no one kicked us out.

After mopping up at the museum, we went to the oldest bar in New York and proceeded to drink some pretty strong local brew. This helped us get over the rainy day and the wet experience in the museum. After several shots of liquor, we stumbled back to our hotel room by 4am, we managed to take off all our damp clothes and take a nice shower before we fell asleep.

Much later the next day, when we finally woke up, the weather had improved immensely. The sun was shining and the temperature was decent. We hit the town! We walked all over the city and got to watch a taping of the ‘Late Night’ show with Jimmy Fallon. That was a real treat. Jimmy’s guest that day was Paul Simon! Paul played with The Roots and we were in music heaven. Then Jimmy’s next guest was Steve Martin! He was so funny. Finally, Tina Fey showed up and she sat with us, the audience! I could barely believe it! This was definitely the highlight of our trip.

We didn’t think anything would be as exciting as the taping of the show, but when we took the Staten Island Ferry to see the Statue of Liberty and that was pretty cool too, she’s no Tina Fey, but Ms. Liberty has her own flare and history.

During the week, we got to see the Hard Rock Cafe located in Times Square, FAO Schwartz, the Brooklyn Bridge, The Guggenheim, The Met, The Empire State Building and got to eat tons of New York style pizza. There was so much more we wanted to do, but we ran out of time. I recommend that if you’re on a tour of the United States, do make New York City your last stop and if at all possible, stay longer than a week; a week is not enough time to experience all this vast city has to offer.

I was up early making sure everything was still in order for my flight to New York City. I double checked all my things and said goodbye to my roommates and took the bus to the airport and caught my flight. When I arrived at the JFK airport, I took the Airport Shuttle to my hotel, it was one of the better NY hotels that was only a few blocks away from Central Park. But, before I could catch the shuttle I had to go through customs, which was cool by me, I’d rather be safe in New York while I’m there visiting.

It took the shuttle two hours to get me to my hotel, but it was worth it. I’d never be able to drive around New York on my own. The congestion alone would drive me batty. I ran into a bit of a problem with my money. I mean, I had money, but it was Canadian and I couldn’t find anyone to convert it for me. Something about it being after 4pm and how the new exchange rates wouldn’t be available until tomorrow morning at 9am!  Luckily, the concierge at my hotel managed to find a bank that would help me apply for an emergency money wire. I had to go to a not so savory part of town to pick up the money, but it was all cool, because it was just in time for me to make my way to the Yankee Baseball Stadium.

I actually caught the subway to the Yankee Stadium all on my own without asking directions. I then followed the crowd to the stadium. I picked up my tickets at the ‘Will Call’ window and made my way to my seat. I had a really good seat, it was right behind 1st base on the first level! What a great view! I really liked ordering a hot dog and having it tossed to me. That day, the Yankee’s lost, but it was a great experience for me. My first American baseball game! The Yankees to boot.

I once again, managed to find the right subway to take me back to my hotel for a good night’s rest before another grand day in New York City.

In a lot of the major cities these days, you see a lot of scooters.  There’s plenty of good reason for this. With their compact size they can negotiate tight spaces better than just about anything.    Some of them get legendary fuel efficiency, and all of them are at least twice as efficient as anything with four wheels.  Singapore’s no different, and there is a very lively scooter community.  This unique island city state is really an ideal spot for getting around on two wheels, because the sprawl of Singapore is fairly substantial, and it’s possible to live a very urban existence without needing to get beyond the city itself.  There’s a lot going on in Singapore, every night of the week, and this makes for a kind of cafe culture not seen since the mid-sixties.

There are many things to keep in mind, however.  Generally, the busy streets here make it so that it’s not a tourist’s sport, and it’s necessary to have a local license.  There are also terrific rains here, of course, that make it particularly necessary to have a kind of local deftness to the ride, so visitors here would be best off admiring some of the cool local bikes.  It’s one of the many splendid attractions you can look forward to as you make your way around town, checking out Singapore’s restaurants, and seeing some of the fantastic entertainment that comes through here.  It really is a magnificent place to visit, and it has everything.

If the smaller bikes aren’t interesting to you, then there are the bigger motorcycles in Singapore, even the HDs that are mysteriously popular in other parts of the world.  If you like retro, however, Singapore has retro, and it’s visible in the biker cultures here as well.  The scooters and the motorcycles are what separates the mods from the rockers, and these days, they do well when they decide to get along and play fair, because it is a risky business, and so much of the shared experiences can make life a fantastic ride.

On my last trip to Europe, I noted that in Paris the evening meals don’t even begin until around nine or ten in the evening, and the actual night life starts around midnight, and the same, I’m assured, is true of Spain, especially in Sitges.  In fact, I’m also told, if you want just a relaxing evening, to take a walk along the waterfront esplanade, then have a dinner (late by American custom), then adjourn to one of several open air cafes around eleven in the evening for a drink and watch people pass by.  Since Sitges is largely known as a gay friendly town, if you’re straight and want a bar, you may have to take a look around for one that isn’t mostly aimed at a gay clientele; however, there are places that cater to a mixed crowd, such as Ricky’s Disco, on Sant Pau 25.  They charge a cover and serve a mix of international gay and straight patrons.  The nightspot is back from the beach on a fairly narrow street.

The next morning, if you haven’t been out too late (at least one club closes at 5:30 a.m.), then a look in at the museums might be fun.  In Sitges, you’ll find the Museu Cau Ferrat, which features two 16th Century cottages joined together by the Catalan artist, Sasntiago Rusinol.  When the artist died in 1931, he willed his home to the city, and the artwork their includes paintings by El Greco as well as Picasso.  Taking a look at some fine art may in fact be the perfect counterpoint to the previous evening.  Three’s also the Museu Romantic, which takes a stab at recreating family life in the 18th and 19th Centuries.  You’ll find antique furniture and antique dolls here.

If you’re checking into one of the hotels Sitges has to offer its guests in February, you may be in time for Carnival, a highlight of the town.  And, of course, if none of these appeal, you may always hit the beaches or simply sleep in and gather some needed energy for your second night in town.

Living in a web-based world presents its own unique challenges, and there are certainly some that we could never have anticipated before.  There are generations growing up right now that have more information available to them in seconds that we had in years.  Even the most devout and caffeinated graduate student could not research any faster than a savvy user of search engines.  We can find all sorts of fantastic information immediately, things like movie showtimes, driving directions, or even the text version of an important speech that was delivered just a few moments ago.  We can also find thousands of listings for rental properties, with companies like TransGlobe Property Management, who have the foresight to move into the computer age with all the engines running.

This certainly does change our reality, and in ways that we can’t really even philosophize yet.  We’re living in the middle of the change, and it will take a few years to develop the hindsight to determine what exactly has happened to our conception of things.  It is certain, however, that these changes have affected our memories.  We simply don’t need to have the same kinds of information in our brains any longer.  Very few people remember more than one or two phone numbers, because of the way our cell phones are programmed, when just twenty years ago most of us could remember dozens.  There are those who claim that this only results in lazier thinking, and this is why the new generations have such short attention spans.

At the same time, it also seems possible, and even likely, that our memory banks are being used in different ways.  We may not live long enough to reap the benefits of the sudden increase in our own memory vaults, but we can see that we think about things differently now.  Even every day occurrences, like moving from one place to another, have a different series of actions involved.  Where before, we would probably make a few preliminary trips to a potential neighborhood, or gather our resources to find out facts about the places we’re considering, we can now log on to the database at TransGlobe Property Management, and browse their properties with the help of twitter and youtube, in order to find out more information than was ever available to us before.  These have to be very splendid changes, because we’re living with more knowledge about where we live, and where we’re going.

It’s a splendid place to begin any new adventure.  The Costa Brava has some of the finest beaches in the world, so they say, and there are many opportunities to get distracted from the petty details of life in Malgrat de Mar.  Hotel accommodations are always spectacular in this part of the world, but there’s something very precious about this place.  It is everything one dreams of when thinking about the perfect getaway in Spain, where there’s a lovely nightlife, with plenty of choices for an exquisite time, along with a natural beauty that is impossible to ever get over.

These days, there are many contemporary pleasures here, with dance clubs and discos, and certainly more than enough to feel far away from the world you know, but still connected to a very vital urban scene.  But there is also a charm that hearkens back to the days when the main entertainments were troubadours and poetry.  You can almost sense the ghost of the young Zenobia Camprubí here, in the time before she met and married Juan Ramón Jiménez.

His fame as a poet would overshadow her own accomplishments in her lifetime, but she is still very beloved, and her own life reveals a spectacular series of contributions to the cultures of the world.  Her famous Diarios are still regarded as important contributions to literature as well as world history, and she is one of the most important translators of Tagore’s works.  Her life’s work, along with that of her husband, took her all over the world, to Columbia, to Cuba, to the U.S., where she taught at Maryland, and to Puerto Rico, where she eventually died, in 1956.  Her lifelong love affair with her husband was legendary, and apparently very tumultuous as well, but it seems obvious from her journals, and the stories told about the couple, that they both drove each other to work, again and again, with great benefit to the world at large.

Steve couldn’t decide on what he wanted to get his fiancée Becky last year for Christmas. The two of them had recently purchased a new townhouse, which Steve was living in at the time. They had decided that Steve would live there until after the wedding at which time Becky would finally move in as well. Until then she would remain in her apartment though she would slowly pack her belongings and move some of her stuff over prior to the actual wedding date.

They had been planning a special ceremony for over a year and they were both extremely excited to not only get married but also to spend the rest of their lives together. That’s part of the reason Steve was so insistent on making last Christmas one of the most special holidays they would experience as it would be the last time they experienced it as singles. However, his intention was not to celebrate their independence for the last time, but to mark it as a major transitional time frame for them. He wanted to honor both their individual lives as well as their joined life together. The more he thought about it the more nervous he became.

Finally one night he was out shopping for a new outdoor refrigerator with his friend Troy. Troy had a nice kitchen in his backyard and needed to replace his refrigerator with a new and larger model. Steve looked around while Troy made his purchase and stumbled across some beautiful hot tubs. He longed for the day that he and Becky could renovate their own backyard when suddenly he saw a beautiful and romantic looking model in the two person hot tubs section. He had no idea these incredible, and to Steve romantic, designs existed and he was also impressed and surprised with the included features and optional accessories. He felt the lighting and sound systems that were included with the model he had his eye on would be perfect and he was suddenly sure of the perfect Christmas present for Becky, which it certainly proved to be.

Singapore could very well be the perfect spot for a perfect wedding.  The attraction for the happy couple is pretty obvious.  This is an elegant city with a fantastic urban feel, sensational design, and access to many splendid natural areas, and the tropical feel of the place which offers instant romance to any occasion.  Weddings are right at home here, and there are so many different options in terms of setting, theme, and ambience, and there are hosts of professionals to help you every step of the way.  It’s an exotic location with a very cosmopolitan feel, and all the guests will be impressed and dazzled.  It also has an amazing number of attractions and events, and a fantastic cultural scene.  Guests will certainly love the opportunity to see your Singapore wedding, and the city state is pretty easy to get around in, so they’ll be in for a few days of adventures on their own when it’s all sealed and done.

Besides the contemporary cultural scene here, which really is spectacular, there are many other sides of Singapore that offer a uniquely romantic feel.  Local legends and myths have origins in Chinese, Indian, and Malay culture, and there are always plenty of other cultures coming through, and adding their own stories and histories to the collection.  But there’s something particularly crucial about weddings that lends itself to spending some time in pursuit of the goddess, whether in a metaphorical way, or by actually trying to track her down.  With the amount of temples and historic spots here, it’s a great place to do either, and in your pursuits, you’ll likely come across the figure of Matsu.

Her origins are Chinese, and her name very likely translates to mean Mother-Ancestor.  She’s one of the original Great Mothers in the pantheon of the sacred, and her realm is the sea.  She is a fierce protector of sailors, or anyone who has anything to do with the depths of the oceans, and she is a sensational representation of the power of young femininity.  She may have been mortal, or may have been birthed from another goddess, but one thing that’s common in her stories is that she never did marry, because no man could ever match her.  Matsu is also connected to dreams, as well as second sight, and her visionary powers saved her brother and father in the stories.  Look for her while you’re here, because she’s probably already looking for you.

Having a hot tub is indeed like returning to the simple pleasures in life.  There’s nothing more elementary than soaking a tired body in some nice warm water, and with massaging jets, there’s even more reason to celebrate.  In a busy world, when there’s never enough time to stop and smell the roses, it’s a wonderful thing indeed to get back to the basics, and enjoy the little things, because it’s the little things that really count.  They mean a lot, and they do add up, and at the end of the day, it’s nice to be able to get some perspective and experience your own perceptions clearly, and to see things as they really are.  It really is infinite, too.

The hardest part about the hot tub these days is the buying.  You want to buy from a reputable company, and one where the customer service comes before anything else, so that your needs will be taken care of no matter what, and that’s why choosehottubsdirect.com is the one that makes sense for you, and for the ones you love.  For a simple pleasure like a hot tub, you want to find a company that understands simplicity, and offers the kind of simple customer service that you can respect and trust indeed.

It’s a company that’s focused on the customer’s needs, which is a fantastically common sense approach to selling, keeping things simple and direct.  It should be simple, but it’s difficult to find place these days that are willing to take the time to listen to your needs and wants.  But it’s exactly what you should expect indeed when you’re making a long-term commitment like having your own hot tub.  And the rewards are terrific.  Working with people you can trust takes out most of the stress, and the rest will wash away when you soak yourself in the delicious water, and enjoy the simple pleasure of a spa.

Carl had been wanting visit the Balearic Island of Ibiza for as long as he could remember, though he was quite sure the desire to do so went even further back than that. He remembers he older brother talking about a great summer vacation he had taken there years ago and this left such a strong impression on the ten year old Carl that Ibiza become something of a mythological paradise in his mind and he longed for the day that he would be able to make this journey himself. And that’s what it amounted to, for Carl it really was a rite of passage or his interpretation of the hero’s journey, which demonstrates how significant the anticipation of this trip became for him.

He was twenty-two when the time arrived. It was actually later than what he had originally intended, throughout his early teen years he planned to visit Ibiza as soon as he turned eighteen. However, life’s obstacles got in his way, as they have a tendency to do and he went to college straight out of high school. He had to work his way through school and was too poor during those years to take any kind of a dream vacation, so he worked hard and studied and it was actually at his graduation party that his older brother presented him with the plane tickets and a reservation for a week long stay in one of the fabulous hotels Ibiza.

As it turned out, Carl’s trip was even better than he had ever imagined it to be. This surprised him somewhat because he really had incredible expectations. His brother had given him two tickets and he brought his best friend Troy with him.  They enjoyed the infamous club scene that is associated with the Island, though Carl was more interested in exploring the beautiful beaches and spending time learning to scuba dive. They also enjoyed the beautiful golf courses on the island. And the two of them spend a day exploring the interior island and were amazed at how rich in artifacts and cultural relics it contained. Ibiza was the beautiful paradise he imagined it to be and Carl wrote a poem to Plato and though it was full of respect, it clearly told him he was wrong about reality never matching the imagined ideal.

Sorry about being away for so long. We’re having a great time, but we do miss Korea and our friends there. We had 2 great weeks in India. A very cool place, but it was monsoon season, so it was really very wet, all the time. The sun did manage to come out the last few days we were there and India literally transformed.

We’re now in Cape Town, we were supposed to be in Kenya, but that got cancelled because there are pirates on the eastern coast of Africa, the water their are unsafe. I wouldn’t mind about the pirates if one of them looked like Johnny Depp. So, our first day was scrambling to find accommodations. We were fortunate enough to find one of the best Cape Town South Africa hotels with room available and for a very reasonable rate. We told them our story about Kenya and the pirates, hoping they’d take pity on us, and we feel they did.

So, by just winging it, we went skydiving at 10,000 feet. I think I’ve definitely conquered my fear of heights. We could see Table Mountain and Robyn Island and the country side of Cape Town. We also visited Simon’s town, which is where Cape Town navy is located. We ate lunch at Kalk Bay and we were able to see a ton of whales, which are here currently because it’s mating season.

We went to Boulder beach to visit the penguins and hiked Table Mountain, which by the way, took us over 6 hours, mainly because we got lost, and the trail we picked was the hardest one. Later, did we find out that there are 12 trails that go up Table Mountain. There’s so much more to tell you about Cape Town, but right now, I’m off to spend my last day in Cape Town checking out the local market and visiting the District 6 museum. Kenya will just have to wait.

If you’re searching the world for a romantic weekend, you might do worse than a find a nice quiet spot on Sentosa Island, just off of the city-state of Singapore.  You’ll find a number of activities and fine Singapore Sentosa hotels.  To begin the day, you might start with breakfast at the hotel.   Perhaps a buffet breakfast, al fresco style, on any number of cliff-side locations.  Local cafes, too, have equally great morning meals.  Later in the morning, after you’ve had your coffee or tea, you and your partner can travel to the Sentosa Nature Walk.  You can begin at either end, near Sentosa Underwater World or the Cable Car Arrival Plaza.  Either way, you’ll have a great walk.  Along the 1.7 kilometer path, keep an eye out for squirrels and macaque, as well as the Nepenthes Rafflesiana pitcher plants.  If it’s not yet lunch time, take a moment to see the Butterfly Park and Insect Kingdom, as well as the spectacular views from the Merlion Statue and the Tiger Sky Tower.

A nice way to spend the afternoon might be to go to a spa specifically for couples, where the two of you can enjoy a body scrub, a Vichy shower for couple, a detox wrap, an aroma massage, and a petal bath, as well as a light lunch.  It’s indulgent, but you’re partner is likely to find it incredibly romantic as well, which will take all the time up until…

Dinner, which can be taken at any number of restaurants, from buffets on the beach to cliff-side fine dining.  In the evening, you can go on the Sentosa Luge and Skyride, taking an open chair lift up the hill, overlooking lights from Singapore, feel the breeze, and cuddle together as the Songs of the Sea show play out below you with its colorful lights.  Then, it’s your choice whether to return by luge, a kind of modified go-cart, or take the Skyride back down the hill to return to your hotel and the rest of your romantic night.

Dubai continues to grow in new directions, confirming its place as one of the hottest tourist destinations in the world.  Whether it’s the local culture, the international art scene, the world-class shopping, the beaches, the nightlife, or any other of the many spectacular draws, people from all over the world, celebrities to entrepreneurs to artists, are drawn to this city.  There’s no real mystery to the attraction, because so much of what’s available here is right on the surface.  In the desert, roots have to grow in shallow soil, and depth comes from the strength of the connections between things, and here the connections are between people.  Coming to Dubai can be like entering into a long conversation.

It doesn’t always matter if you’ve been following the conversation, either.  There are many loose threads, and many open questions, but on the best days there is a splendid sense that your voice is important here.  There’s no question that tourists do make a difference here.  Their presence has affected the way the city operates, and now it’s easier than ever to find the perfect 5 star hotel in Dubai, or anything you like that will help you to travel in spectacular style.  It’s also a place that gives back, offering new lessons and new ideas of culture and making art, and there are many different forms that inspiration can take, as evidenced by the work of Koh Myung Keun.

When there is no form, there is only emptiness, and in emptiness there is another series of possibilities for art.  This might be the most essential thing that can be articulated from looking at the photo sculptures of Koh Myung Keun, whose work was exhibited at the recent edition of Art Dubai.  This Korean artist used numerous technologies to make his works, which sometimes involve welding together frames and screens of images layered over each other in extremely complicated ways.  The results are enormously stunning, making his work very important to see live, and in the flesh, because their artifice maintains an ethereal nature, and balances in an impossible place.

Home of the famous painter Pablo Picasso and actor Antonio Banderas, Malaga Spain is a beautiful coastal town. Just east of the Strait of Gibraltar, is the Port of Malaga which has been in continuous use since 600 B.C.. From this town of around 250,000 people, travelers can catch a train that would get them to Madrid in about two and half hours. There are also highways that get sightseers to other coastal towns. If you have a chance to spend some time here you will find the city is a walking historical site. Pick a room at one of the many hotels Malaga Spain has to offer and stay awhile.

The Phoenicians first founded this city around 770 BC. Malaka is the derivative of a Phoenician word that means salt. Apparently, Fish were lasted near the harbor. In the 8th century AD the Arabic Muslim’s ruled over Spain and this port town became a trade center for them. The Umayyad Dynasty fell and the city became the capital of a kingdom reliant on Granada. The town over the thousands of years has been described by travelers as the most beautiful towns along the coast of Spain. There has always been an abundant supply of food and fruits. In 1487, the Christian forces took the town from the Arabs and then, five years later, Granada fell.

Visitors that come to this town can see many sites that show the story of all the different inhabitants over the years. Rich with architecture of ancient and new. The Moors left a grand castle on mount Gibralfaro. The Alcazaba fortress is a nice place to see. The church of Santiago, Saint James, is another splendid creation of the Gothic Mudejar, which takes elements for the Islamic and Christian designs. No matter where you go in this city, you will find many beautiful and interesting places and things to enjoy.